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Whether searching for the guy, it's manifestation of capitulation? from Excellence's blog

 

Whether searching for the guy, it’s manifestation of capitulation?

Nowadays we more and more often meet with the image of the strong and independent woman. Alone she lives, alone deals with financial problems , alone is driving a car, alone is making essential home repairs. In the days of equality rights it should not surprise nobody. Additionally we reached the stage, when the lonely life became fashionable and self-sufficiency of women is highly desired. Of course, the woman is able to care independently for herself. However, what with the need for closeness?

Many women aren't searching for the partner since this may deny their image in the society. Posing as strong and independent (or being so) they are repelling all courtship and aren't searching for the partner, since it could spoil opinions about them. After all they deal with it alone. Wanting to go out they are ringing up friends and are doing the "woman's outing" to have a glass of wine on the Friday evening. However, every one of us sometimes has a need to cuddle, to be kissed, or simply to hold somebody by the hand.

Provided that casual affairs can satisfy urgency for sex without obligations, still the need for the closeness also remains high and desirable. Not every one of us is admitting to it, however we all feel such a need. How to deal with this as a single woman in XXI century? It should be rhetorical question. She isn't afraid of other opinions, but is searching for the right man. Perhaps for some it will be given with novelty, but having a guy isn't destroying the image of being a strong and independent woman.

Today's free women alone are choosing partners for themselves. To help with it may, perhaps, just a dating site epolishwife.com. The registration isn't a manifestation of capitulation. To the contrary - it is evidence to the fact that nowadays we are conscious what features a perfect guy should have and we are aspiring to finding him. Going to dates we aren't searching for love by force. We are searching for the person which will help us to develop and will be sharing happy moments and successes with us. We don't want somebody who will be limiting us. We are searching for somebody who, with us, will be aspiring towards the ideal.

Single women aren't meeting with such a stigmatization like it would happened decade or two ago. Expression a "spinster" isn't applying no more, because the woman, the same as the guy, can ripe for the right connection sooner or later. Taking the lack of pressure into consideration, all the more we should not have qualms about searching for our proverbial second-half on portals. We live in the 21st century, we not have to wait or agree for the man chosen by parents or imposed by the society.

No pressure, gives us the right to free movement and choice. Get to know a lot of men and then decide whether with any of them you want to spend your life. It's definitely better than get stuck in connection with the first who had enough courage to openly show you his interest. At the time, when there is coercion, the choice turns out to be a pleasure.

Strong and independent women in the society are being promoted. Such women in the real life are doing fine, however it isn't possible in this image to lose one's true self. Going on a date, or permit someone to close up to each other, not only in the realm of the physical but also emotional, is not a sign of weakness.

Just the opposite – creating common life with somebody requires power, perseverance and the creativity far more than living individually. Let us not be afraid to search for love either around ourselves or on dating websites. The strong woman doesn't need the man. Strong woman want the man and therefore is searching as well as is choosing the perfect partner for herself.

In order to form together something beautiful.

 

 

 

 


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