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Is that any proven way to find love? from Excellence's blog

 

The lovers are around you, but you, in sadness, consider, what you lack, that you are still alone? In fact, you lack nothing! A relationship does not reflect a value of a man, but people say for a reason that you experience a true happiness when you may share it. So, it is not worth giving up and divest you of a chance for love, probably it just waits for you around the corner? If you still have not met your other half – all is not lost yet! There is never too late for a wonderful love, and everything you lack today may come just tomorrow. However, be aware that love apart from its sweet taste will require much from you. Are you ready to take up a challenge? So, let’s start!

  BE YOURSELF! A self-acceptance is a very important issue. If you feel good with yourself, the other people will notice it and repay you for it. If you want to develop a relationship with somebody, focus on sincerity, do not pretend anybody else in order to please people around you. Such behavior may have the opposite effect, and the bad experiences will discourage you to meet the new people. Talking about yourself in an honest manner will also enable you to avoid misunderstandings and quarrels in the future. Being yourself is the best investment, not only in the relationship, but, first off, all in your life. Do not hide your plans and intentions in respect of the acquaintance. Do not be afraid of saying NO, either, if your heart tells you so. If a person, with whom you meet has no serious plans and he/she expressly gets it to understand you – do not agree to quietly delude yourself for something more, as you put at a risk hurting your feelings and disappointment.

  SAY “NO” TO LIFE DELUSIONS! You cannot get out of your head the romantic comedies and stories like from the Disney’s fairytale? Please, note! It is high time to realize that maybe the biggest enemy in looking for love is just you. The unrealistic expectations effectively impede searching for the other half, and at the same time they deprive us of an opportunity for a perfect relationship with somebody, who is quite imperfect! A real life seldom writes the scenarios like from a movie, it frequently puts us to a test – probably, you will have to reveal your imperfections, weaknesses or fears, or face them, if your other half gets into trouble. Do not feel frightened – such experiences perfectly strengthen a relationship and enable to get to know a real “self” of the other person. After some time, you will realize that a deep affinity, reliance and understanding without words do not have to occur during the first meeting, and you need many days, patience and effort to achieve it, what, without any doubt, will pay off!

  OPEN YOURSELF! When you want to meet new people, you must open yourself for your environment. Even the most determined person will finally go off if your initiative cannot be noticed. Do not be afraid to establish a contact with the passengers met in the bus or a person, who just stands in a queue for coffee. We often idealize the other person, creating an unhealthy distance and being afraid of the discrediting. It divests us of our courage, but still it is a man like us. If you give yourself a chance for opening yourself and establishing a contact, you will convince that this distance has not been needed. The progressive opening for the environment will teach you to meet new people easily and will arise the curiosity of the other man. You do not have to fall back into everybody’s arms, but do not escape from the people, as finally love cannot be found on the desert island, it exists between the people. If the things do not work out at the beginning, do not become discouraged, it will only get better over time.

  LEARN TO APPRECIATE! Many people associate the successes in life with happiness. Just consider how your wellbeing is affected when you stay surrounded by the positive-minded and smiling persons? Yes, it is just this, smiling is transmittable! Let your joy work like a magnet and attract the other persons. If walking along the high street you meet 100 gloomy persons and 1 smiling person, so probably we do not have to tell you to whom you will pay your attention. In the life, it is also worthwhile to pay attention to the good things, even if they are little and the other deem them as insignificant. Every human has a tendency to possess the great things, a rainbow without a storm and a rose without its thorns, nevertheless a route is different. We will not be able to appreciate the great things, if these small ones are not pleasurable for us. Be thankful for each day, and you will convince how valuable can be your life.

 TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. When we are in the relationship, we start to take care of ourselves to the greater extend and we make attempts to appear our best in the eyes of the other person. What if all these stuffs is done for yourself? In no circumstances being lonely substantiates not taking care of yourself, and, certainly, does not encourage to closer acquaintance. It is worth noticing that it is not only about a presence, but also about the other spheres of your life.  Loneliness does not have to mean a constant boredom. Learn how to enjoy the time spend with yourself, derive joy from it and try to get to know better your own countenance.

Just treat this time as a real luxury, finally in our times such “tête-à-tête” occurs very rarely. Do not depend your happiness only on the other person, know how to spend an enjoyable afternoon or evening in private. When you depend your value on the other person your self-esteem is underestimated and you encounter troubles to cope alone, and in consequence these two factors lead to entering into the unsuccessful relations or difficulties with maintaining the existing ones.

    Even today, take care of your mood, condition and health. Keep smiling to your life, and it certainly makes it worth your while. Be a man who is interested in yourself, and the other will get interested in You, too. A movie, theater, restaurant, and maybe a walk? It can be also a great amusement without the other person, and furthermore it can offer us a chance to meet the other person – finally, that’s it! Just tame your loneness, because otherwise it will not leave you even when you are in the relationship.


 

 

 

           

 


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