Who are we looking for in the Internet?
Are dating website good place to find true love or are they only for people looking for one night adventure? Is it possible to find here our future wife or husband?
Everything depends on what kind of dating site we visit. If the site is for people from nearest neighborhood we can assume that most of its members will prefer quick meetings after just days or weeks talking online. When the distances are bigger it usually takes months before the meeting is set so it is a good place for shy and patient people.
What kind of people can we find on online dating sites?
There are numbers of reasons for people to log on dating sites. They`re not only for desperate people for whom it`s a last resort. Polish woman who calls herself Kicia112 says she is from a little town and there is no place where she could meet someone new or interesting, with whom she could date. Another Pole does not believe it is possible to meet an attractive person in a club or a pub and she prefers to have a long talk with someone in the web rather than few words over a drink.
Some people are just shy and for them dating sites are safe places where they can chat with someone without the risk of being laughed down or rejected. Talking via Internet is the solution for those who find it hardly possible to put a sentence together in front of attractive person and for those who need time to open for another human being. Then, when there is time for the first meeting, there are some topics to talk about and no one feels embarrassed.
Of course, you can also find some people who signed up only for having a good time and they look only for admiration and flirt, not love. Those can be people in serious relationships who do not intend to cheat on their partner but just want to feel attractive again. This is usually quite simple to disguise them, though. They look for compliments and attention but they show any of this to another person.