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Who are we looking for in the Internet?

Are dating website good place to find true love or are they only for people looking for one night adventure? Is it possible to find here our future wife or husband?

Everything depends on what kind of dating site we visit. If the site is for people from nearest neighborhood we can assume that most of its members will prefer quick meetings after just days or weeks talking online. When the distances are bigger it usually takes months before the meeting is set so it is a good place for shy and patient people.

What kind of people can we find on online dating sites?

There are numbers of reasons for people to log on dating sites. They`re not only for desperate people for whom it`s a last resort. Polish woman who calls herself Kicia112 says she is from a little town and there is no place where she could meet someone new or interesting, with whom she could date. Another Pole does not believe it is possible to meet an attractive person in a club or a pub and she prefers to have a long talk with someone in the web rather than few words over a drink.

Some people are just shy and for them dating sites  are safe places where they can chat with someone without the risk of being laughed down or rejected. Talking via Internet is the solution for those who find it hardly possible to put a sentence together in front of attractive person and for those who need time to open for another human being. Then, when there is time for the first meeting, there are some topics to talk about and no one feels embarrassed.

Of course, you can also find some people who signed up only for having a good time and they look only for admiration and flirt, not love. Those can be people in serious relationships who do not intend to cheat on their partner but just want to feel attractive again. This is usually quite simple to disguise them, though. They look for compliments and attention but they show any of this to another person.

Boredom in relationship: how to fight it?

You met via dating site. At first everything was wonderful but now you both feel something changed and things are not what they used to be. It doesn`t necessarily mean you`re not made for each other, you only reached this point when daily routine becomes part of your relationship.

Beginnings are always great. You can talk long hours: you need to find out everything about the other person. Conversation is what dating online is mostly about. But after some time you may start to feel bored because how often can you ask someone how was his or her day or about plans for weekend?

How to avoid being bored?

Many couples with this problem try to find a hobby for both of them. It may sound harder as you are meeting on dating site but a bit of creativity can solve every problem. Why not start cooking together? Let both of you prepare the same dish: it can be something from your regional cousin. Later you can eat it in front of your computer together and share your experiences. You can also read the same books and watch movies: discussions about them will provide you topics to talk about for next few days.

Of course, you don`t need to do everything together. Each of you can sign for some classes you like most. Sharing your passion with other person works for your relationship: you listen and support each other and that makes you feel even closer.

Every living thing

Every little thing must evolve to stay alive. Maybe both of you feel a bit bored because for a long time nothing changed between you, and your conversations – no matter how important and interesting – lack of physical contact. In other words, maybe it is the time to change dating online into real life meeting. You don`t have to live together at once but maybe it is about time to say “lets meet”. 

Swedes in relationships

People from Sweden, like from whole Scandinavia, are said to be very reserved towards other people, especially when romantic feeling is involved. They won`t chat up a girl in the street or in the bus even if she is the girl from their dreams. Nevertheless they are quit open while talking about sex, partners and ex-partners and they are tolerating other people`s choices.

What may other nations find most interesting, Swedes do not look at other people in the streets. For people from Poland the first impression is highly uncomfortable and strange. Many polish women find themselves unattractive with this lack of interest. It doesn`t mean Swedes should start acting like Italians and shout comments loudly in the street – a nice smile from time to time would do.

Where the Swedes meet

It is a bit easier to meet Swedish guys on a party or in a pub – generally, in places that are made to meet other people. But many polish women do not find places like this a good way to meet a lifetime partner. Flirt on a party can be a nice experience but it rarely lead to more serious relationship. So the best option probably is to meet someone via Internet or dedicated  dating website. While doing that you can make sure that you share similar hobbies and interests.

Do not worry if it takes some time for the relationship to develop. It is important to listen to your partner carefully. It may seem that  polish women are boastful – they like to talk about their successes and beautiful house or expensive clothes: but this is nothing more than a cultural difference. They are also more likely to call themselves good in something that Swedes do.

What to expect from polish women?

Polish women are more focused on their families than on their carriers or social life. They are devoted and many are likely to give up their job to become house wives. They are also very elegant and it is important to them to wear nice clothes, put make up every morning and go to the hairdresser once a month. But they do all of that to keep their partners happy.  

Why do Americans look for Polish women?

Because they are classy and beautiful and are famous for their devotion to children and family. What else to expect from your future wife?

Of course, there are some cultural differences when polish dating us – first of all, they are very feminine and it is expected from men to open door for them, to pay the bills in restaurants or to compliment their look. They love family life: they are good cooks and mothers as well as being highly educated. There also differences of another kind.

James, 42, who wants to find polish wife  by using datingsites says he prefers Polish to Americans: “With a polish girl I can truly be myself. With girls from US I have the impression I always play a game – I need to keep myself occupied every time: do yoga, jog, have many hobbies, even if I`d prefer just to stay at home and watch a movie in TV”. 

Not so different after all.

On the other hand, American culture is well known in Poland. It is very common to watch American TV shows or movies or listen to the music. Most women know popular Hollywood stars – often better than the ones from Poland. With this, it is much easier while seeking polish women – there is always a topic to begin with.

They are also known for their good manners. “Polish women are always very polite to me even if they are not interested in the conversation” – adds James. “This is very encouraging. I`m a shy person and it was very difficult for me to chat up someone. Now I know there is no risk of being hurt only because someone is not in a good mood. This is not so obvious while dating women from Eastern countries”.

It is hard to speak about men from USA or polish women in general. Every person is unique and this basic set of national features does not necessarily apply to everyone. Treat your relationship as an adventure – by dating a person from different culture, you will always surprise one another and your relation will remain fresh even after many, many years.   

The first dating, also dating online  is a big challenge for both woman and  man, which often ends with a permanent stress perception and problem with the showing of their best when the meeting concludes. Both woman and man make a lot of mistakes that can improperly impinge on the future creating a fake first impression. And as we all well know, most often the first impression decides the future relations, their nature and extent.

Why do some have dating successful and full mutual understanding of the partner, and the other end with disgust at home? It turns out that not everything is chemistry, pheromones or other commonly recognized factors affecting interpersonal relationships, but mostly ignoring the basic principles of interpersonal communication. In view of the large number of queries we decided to see what are the most common mistakes on first dates and verify the data collected with the opinions of the experts on male-female relations.

Here is this mini guide, indicating what to do and what to avoid so that first encounter has not turned out to be the last.   Jerry Kelly, a specialist in the development of the personality indicates that we should not mixed up dating with a visit to our personal therapist, which apparently is quite common. We tend to forget fact that during the first meeting we have first of all emphasize what is best in us.

By the way, precisely balanced mysteriousness is the most attractive approach. This all has to stimulate interest in our dating partner and encourage him to continue learning about the us, which means the next meetings . During the first arranged meeting most dangerous turns out to be a complete lack of knowledge about the other person. Both parties must proceed cautiously and not shed all the weight of their souls in order to avoid silence or sense of uncertainty and stress. Our words must be balanced and supported by judgment.

Karen Woods, a professional trainer of human behavior stresses that the first dating meetings are treacherous and that both sides need to earnestly work over their self-consciousness,making sure that everything is as it should be and to gain control over how they're received. She suggests to censor a bit the story of their life and definitely skip the facts associated with the previous "conquests". Specialist indicates that you might want to ask persons from your surroundings for support to identify through them number of your best and worst personality traits and behaviors. If sincere, then they definitely can do it without difficulty. Now you just need to remember their words and try to draw conclusions from them.

Please note, however, that women and men put all sorts of things, which probably is due to the differences between the two sexes. It should be remembered that dating is a process, so we should focus on getting to know the other person and dosing information. The primary goal should become three dates and then you can decide whether continuing makes sense, because the first impression is false.

The first date is an attempt by you to go with a raised head and full knowledge of yourself and your expectations. It's really about what not to say but what to suggest.

 "Women are like  flowers, we turn to the light and like flowers we need the sun to expand."- Alexander Dumas.

Women ... men were trying to fathom the mysteries of woman’s thoughts, intentions, many of the poets was in awe over their charm . Polish women are our national "treasure", our pride, after all, Polish ladies are among the most beautiful in the world!

  Polish women are increasingly looking for husbands, partners outside the country. In an era of globalization, the internet, linguistic abilities, "mixed" marriages are on the rise.

Dating online, making contact with people all over the world and getting to know each other, is not limited only to the “home-yard”. Dating in Paris, exchanging emails with a resident of Toronto, or chatting via Skype is the norm in search for a partner.

 Polish women are valued in the world not only because of their physical effects and charming appearance. Polish ladies are very entrepreneurial, intelligent and with amazing grace can combine domestic duties with a professional career. Polish women outside their country are making a big splash as ideal candidates for a wifes. Not so surprisingly - they are beautiful and natural, resourceful, ambitious and educated. Well known for natural beauty and grace, for unique sense of humor and the distance to each other.

They are also fabulous in the kitchenette,champions of beautifully presented, refined cuisine. Old Polish proverb "through the stomach to the heart" is richly deserved with long tradition of the romantic dinners,filled with special ingredients, served with a lovely charm and a hint of a smile, sent man to their knees for long, long time.

In a one word, Polish wife is a dream wife.

Why visit our country?

 The answer is simple! More and more tourists visiting Poland knows the answer to this question. Polish landscapes, hospitality, monuments and ... beautiful women are the some of the reasons for which it is worth to come to Poland. It is also worth mentioning the qualities of Polish cuisine, the unique flavor of regional dishes attracts gourmet lovers ... and sometimes surprises them, like the case of of Polish tasty sauerkraut-pie famous for bringing conflicting emotions among foreigners.

 Andrew Rosiewicz, well-known Polish singer praises charms of his country women singing that "most vitamins have Polish girls ... and probably in the whole world the more beautiful you will not find".

 Beautiful, hardworking, resourceful and modest, it is not without reason saying that Polish women are among the most beautiful and desirable women in the world. For this reason only Poland is well worth a visit.

Many tourists visiting our country is impressed with the cultural richness, breathtaking landscapes, multiculturalism and the kindness of their Polish hosts. In the fall and winter, summer and spring, the beauty of Polish land is unsurpassed.

Doesn’t matter when you met first time- on one of dating sites like ePolishWife.com  or in  the “real” life.

Dating online is a first step to a meeting in a real life. When choosing and meeting a date everyone wants to look like a million dollars to make the right impression on the other person. What to do before the meeting, and what to avoid, so date has not turned out to be a flop? Read our short ten commandments …

1. Plan your time well. Instead of a panic run for fleeing bus or hustle drivers standing in a jam give yourself a few minutes for unforeseen circumstances. This way you certainly not going to be late.
2. Do not experiment before meeting with new cosmetics, hairstyles and manicures. What fits celebrities does not always works on the "normal" head. So before you take a risk, consider it again. Then it may already be too late.
3. Select earlier dress in which you are going to occur and prepare it. If not, you run the risk of detached buttons, faulty lining and ruffled legs which you will not be able to fix in a few minutes before the meeting.
4. Don't overdo it with preparation. Strong makeup, new hairstyles, blasting clothes and shiny jewelry will do nicely for New Year's Eve Ball, but not necessarily in a quiet, Italian Tavern. Choose the right garment for the circumstances and true to your own habits.
5. Do not pretend to be someone you're not. True (sooner or later) always comes to light. So it is better to avoid disappointments and instead of playing another person openly talk about your expectations and experiences.
6. Give the other side chance to open and speak out. You believe in love at first sight? In fact, it happens very rarely. Give your partner a chance to bloom. Share passions, common interests and time. Who knows if this new, beautiful thing will not end up in the aisle?
7. Check and verify that all is done and ready. If you choose a spectacle in the theater or a new movie in a cinema - make sure that tickets are already in the pocket. You should also take the phone number to the radio taxi and a few dollars, if later you decide to go to the pub or restaurant.
8. Freedom and once again, freedom! You have to feel good and enjoy the moment. If you do not choose to visit opera,what is the point to wear tree piece suit you hate or shoes on high heels in which you walk? Sexiness and beauty can be pointed out also in other ways.
9. Remember that beauty is within you and not measured in centimeters, thick wallet or a color of your tan. Take a look in the mirror before going out and try to spot the awesome guy or an elegant woman. Then the good mood for the rest of the evening is guaranteed!
10. Anytime, anywhere and whenever you can - smile! Please, use our polish dating site! Maybe today you will meet the love of your life?

How to make it blossom?

Did you know that according to the latest research, relationships which began on the internet are the most enduring? This applies especially to marriages-the average divorce rate among couples who got started thru one of dating websites is about half lower than the traditionally concluded. However, the internet also carries certain risks. So how do you look for this special one on the dating sites, and then make an online move in the right direction?

Very important, if you are looking for a partner seriously, create interesting profile, write about yourself ( phrases like: I am what I am, write to me - you will learn, etc. are not enough), what do you expect from future partner. Making decision to be a user of dating sites do not be afraid to add your pictures , they are a very important part of the profile, really few people are interested in the profiles without them. If you say A then say B. Decide your future knowingly and thoughtfully.

Where to look for love on the net? Dating sites is the proper place? How save it is?

At the beginning of our guide let emphasize that it’s much safer to look for that someone special by dating site, such as  ePolishWife, than randomly chosen forum. If you have any problems, thinking that the person you made contact with is untrustworthy or even a scam , the people who administrating  ePolishWife will use all available tools to uncover that and warn the next potential victim. Online dating are safe if their participants have a healthy approach and caution.

How to make relationship found on dating sites works and blossom?

If you've been searching successfully for a potential partner , it's worth to develop new relation slowly. Is not wise from the get-go to share with that new person your life story. Let him /or her/ learned about us gradually. Not necessarily also during first contact, we need to share more photos. If you want to be treated seriously - act seriously and treat others with the respect, but also with a bit of a distance. After all, newly met person in the real world are also known gradually. Every dating, especially  dating online  is a mystery uncovered step by step.

Graduating tension in a dating website found relationship gives one more effect, which you can't forget. Thanks to the fact that with giving up each new sliver of mystery, piece of new information, the other side takes on a greater appetite to learn even more and more.

And this is only a first step to fascination and falling in love ...