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The first dating, also dating online is a big challenge for both woman and man, which often ends with a permanent stress perception and problem with the showing of their best when the meeting concludes. Both woman and man make a lot of mistakes that can improperly impinge on the future creating a fake first impression.
And as we all well know, most often the first impression decides the future relations, their nature and extent. Why do some have dating successful and full mutual understanding of the partner, and the other end with disgust at home? It turns out that not everything is chemistry, pheromones or other commonly recognized factors affecting interpersonal relationships, but mostly ignoring the basic principles of interpersonal communication.
In view of the large number of queries we decided to see what are the most common mistakes on first dates and verify the data collected with the opinions of the experts on male-female relations. Here is this mini guide, indicating what to do and what to avoid so that first encounter has not turned out to be the last.
Jerry Kelly, a specialist in the development of the personality indicates that we should not mixed up dating with a visit to our personal therapist, which apparently is quite common. We tend to forget fact that during the first meeting we have first of all emphasize what is best in us. By the way, precisely balanced mysteriousness is the most attractive approach. This all has to stimulate interest in our dating partner and encourage him to continue learning about the us, which means the next meetings . During the first arranged meeting most dangerous turns out to be a complete lack of knowledge about the other person. Both parties must proceed cautiously and not shed all the weight of their souls in order to avoid silence or sense of uncertainty and stress. Our words must be balanced and supported by judgment.
Karen Woods, a professional trainer of human behavior stresses that the first dating meetings are treacherous and that both sides need to earnestly work over their self-consciousness,making sure that everything is as it should be and to gain control over how they’re received. She suggests to censor a bit the story of their life and definitely skip the facts associated with the previous „conquests”. Specialist indicates that you might want to ask persons from your surroundings for support to identify through them number of your best and worst personality traits and behaviors. If sincere, then they definitely can do it without difficulty. Now you just need to remember their words and try to draw conclusions from them. Please note, however, that women and men put all sorts of things, which probably is due to the differences between the two sexes.
It should be remembered that dating is a process, so we should focus on getting to know the other person and dosing information. The primary goal should become three dates and then you can decide whether continuing makes sense, because the first impression is false. The first date is an attempt by you to go with a raised head and full knowledge of yourself and your expectations.
It’s really about what not to say but what to suggest.
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Dating sites are becoming popular place on the Internet that can be used to connect in search for love. However, online dating users should be very careful. This is the virtual world, where it's easy to get lost.
Single, lonely people have large deposits of feelings and trust that are easy to use by Internet scammers. And, unfortunately, there are a lot of them in wait for naïve people.
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IMPORTANT!
If someone, in first message sent to you, gives his/her email address, there is a high possibility that this person might be a scammer. They never pay membership fee and will try all available methods to make contact with potential victims. Do not use such an address and rather try to lead a conversation with him/her through the portal. If it sustain and that person responds to your message there is a good chance that threat doesn't exist and you will avoid disappointment.
Dating sites are becoming popular place on the Internet that can be used to connect in search for love. However, online dating users should be very careful. This is the virtual world, where it's easy to get lost.
Single, lonely people have large deposits of feelings and trust that are easy to use by Internet scammers. And, unfortunately, there are a lot of them in wait for naïve people.
Therefore, we want to warn our users against too much openness and trust. We highly recommend common sense more
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Safe dates
IMPORTANT!
If someone, in first message sent to you, gives his/her email address, there is a high possibility that this person might be a scammer. They never pay membership fee and will try all available methods to make contact with potential victims. Do not use such an address and rather try to lead a conversation with him/her through the portal. If it sustain and that person responds to your message there is a good chance that threat doesn't exist and you will avoid disappointment.
Dating sites are becoming popular place on the Internet that can be used to connect in search for love. However, online dating users should be very careful. This is the virtual world, where it's easy to get lost.
Single, lonely people have large deposits of feelings and trust that are easy to use by Internet scammers. And, unfortunately, there are a lot of them in wait for naïve people.
Therefore, we want to warn our users against too much openness and trust. We highly recommend common sense more
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