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Probably each of us likes sometimes “ naughty” news when whole body starts getting goosebumps and the heart beats faster. Thanks to overwhelming presence of the Internet and mobile phones, we can heat things up always and everywhere. Men love when a woman starts somewhat spicier exchange of messages, not to mention releasing the reins of fantasy in the preparation for response. With more experience couples do not have a problem with it, erotic messages could be a nice diversification and intensification when waiting for the afternoon, evening or night. But what if we just met that person? And at what point we can safely start that “naughty” chat?

When you spot or even get to know a man on the Internet, usually appears some hesitation. Uploaded a photo where he looks like a million dollars? Should you notice how handsome he is and just go over the agenda? Or maybe you should write how stricken you and feel the urge to put your legs on the contours of his muscular shoulders? And what to do when you send your photos and he replied that your lips are made for love? Think of it as something too bold, or ask if he wants to find out in reality? There is no universal rule, however, you may want to ask yourself the question about your expectations.

When a man after two days of exchanging messages starts bringing the conversation to erotic tracks, we have to start wondering. Of course, all depends on our temperament. If we are looking for a blazing romance then we can pull on this subject. It will pleasantly speed up your heartbeat and the man interest will get a boost. Pulling this type of talk has also another advantage. Namely, knowing the man's fantasies we can, although incidentally, find out what sits in him. If already in the third message he writes that wants to tie you down and use a whip - we may feel little uneasy about it.

This is not always a sign of deviation (sometimes this is the result of trying to educate themselves by reading, for example, very popular “50 Shades of Grey", however, you may want to think if you really want to be in something like this. If, on the other hand, we are both speaking on same waves, you can give it a try.

Situation is slightly different when we are looking for a permanent stability in the relationship. Starting such talks too early can give us the message that the relationship will be based only on sex. If a man too early starts such a conversation and pulls them on, despite the fact that a woman is trying to change the subject, it shows his priorities. Yes, we like the macho type but, in same time, we want a partner in every aspect of life, not just in sex. It is well worth before starting such a talks to check whether you have common themes and how it looks having a conversation on variety of topics.

The physicality with time will fade but everyday life remains . On the other hand, if a calls and talks lasts for few weeks maybe even months or already there have been meetings in reality making us ready for more, we can start themselves. Just ordinary "I dreamed about you last night" or bolder "but I feel like craving for you". Certainly this will be appreciated and you may fill will like “teenager in love”.

Speaking about cybersex you might want to pay attention to one more thing. Sometimes a woman wants to start writing spicy news, however, there is no response on the part of man. Very often we are waiting for the messages that stimulate the imagination. It is not true that only men a lot of think about sex. Women, however, are less likely to admit. So what if our friend avoids the topic? There can be several reasons. The most popular is ordinary fear.

The man is afraid that he will be received as a cheap version of Casanova, which only craves for sex. Often also the guys are not as up-and-coming for which they want to be known. What do you do? Simply, start the subject yourself. If the call will be held and lasted – certainly both sides will feel satisfied. If, however, the topic of conversation will be changed by him – you can start thinking about what is the cause. Low libido, a shaming mystery, maybe disturbing fetish? It is certainly a warning signal.

In the 21st century, cybersex is not taboo. Let's send erotic message, blush at work when reading stealthy – off the eyes of our Boss – emails about what the man wants us to do, but let's be cautious. Women like sex, women like spicy conversations, but everything in moderation. So let's explore the question what we have as priorities. Let us ask ourselves if we are ready and not be afraid to write something that will surely heat up the atmosphere.

 

Although the article is about the types of women sought by men, at the outset, it is worth noting that we should not bend characteristics and strive to meet the criteria of described cases.

Not every woman is suitable for every man. The mere fact that the ladies look like a million dollars is no guarantee of a successful relationship. At the time, in the case of mismatch instead the fabulous life you will find continuous frustration. However, there are many features that we show to the world unknowingly and that we do not define. So how do you behave to externalize what in us is the best?

Don't be afraid to voice your own opinion.

This is the basic principle that should characterize male-female relationship. It's a myth that guys are looking just for easy-going women, for which they are the oracle. Of course it's not true that difference of opinions each time lead to a fierce exchange and, by definition, negate the opinion of the partner. Do not be afraid to have your own opinion and it openly express it. He believes that the best possible dining experience is the pork chop with potatoes, and you prefer chicken rolls with rice? Tell him about this and suggest that he should try. He doesn't likes walking, and you are a fan of it? Pick up the argument pointing how walking is leveling the risks of heart disease and bring a beauty of romance at Sunset Park. The guy will appreciate it. He is looking for a partner to talk to and not the person who will blindly agree.

Discussion is cementing relationship much more than continuous consent.

Of course do not press anything. If you also like pork, do not pretend your special taste for vegetarian dishes. Just run conversation with a hint of flirtatious personal quarrel.

Another type of women that are rather evaded by men are dietary meals junkies .

You do not eat on a date favorite flour tortillas, because it is fattening and – instead - you choose a few leaves of lettuce with drop of olive oil? You don't want to be perceived as gluttony person ? You think that a full meal, with a solid amount of meat is in contrary to your female aura ? Error! Men like to see women also eat. In psychology, the appetite for food is often identified with the appetite for life. You're in the mood for meat dish? Order it. Certainly this will be rewarded with silent admiration. Of course, do not eat more than you can. Do not compete, who eat more wings at KFC. Just, simply, eat with gusto what you just choose.

Miss perfect? Man will say " thanks, but no".

Any, even small signs that your make-up is worn and you're running to the bathroom to improve appearance? And perhaps going to watch football game with your guy you choose to sport high-heels? This is a mistake. Man is not looking for a Barbie doll, which always looks like just pulled out of the box. To the contrary, something like this might scare him off. If you tell him that you couldn't foresee in advance possibility of breaking those high-heels on the stones, believe me, that certainly does invite you nowhere. Be natural. Full makeup and high heels leave for the evening. In the day bet on underlined your eyes and heel on the post. To the game, dress up a sweatshirt and sneakers. Simply adjust to the conditions. Do not try to be perfect in every way. If he invites you for a 10 minutes ‘walk do not post it to him that he must wait two hours until you change to a goddess. Simply and gently lash your eyes, put on your shoes and go.

Man is not looking for a perfect princess who lives in crystal tower guarded by the Great Dragon. Man is seeking regular woman from the neighborhood which will be able to share with him normal life, not only elegant gale.

Female Ivy?

A thing of the past. Once synonymous with good women which fully “belongs to” her man. He decides, he earns, he pays, he even gives an approval for conversation subject. Do not commit this error and do not show that you are dependent on him. He wants to invite you on a date? Yes, let him pay, however, announce that the next time will be on you. Do not want to admit to be successful at work, because you're afraid of stigma of being, so called, corporate old lady? Mistake - man will appreciate that you like what you do, your success and will gladly talk about it. He wants to go to trendy restaurant but, today, you have an incredible craving for food in the rustic pub on the corner? Tell him that today you go out there.

Be independent. Be a partner and not a toy.

These are, of course, only the most radical errors, but also the most common. Men nowadays are no longer looking for domestic hens. They are looking for women of strength and independence, somebody who will be a challenge. And guys, after all, love the challenges. If, to the contrary, he gets discouraged by and claims that you're too independent- it's obviously clear that guy is just looking for easy prey and not a partner.

Of course, don't be too sensitive. Sometimes we may allow things let go. However, we should never make errors, especially those described above. Of course, let's not pretend someone who we are not. Do you like when the guy pay? OK, let him at it. Do you like salads? Eat them. But don't make up for this, in the hope that it'll be better.

 

 

 

Whether searching for the guy, it’s manifestation of capitulation?

Nowadays we more and more often meet with the image of the strong and independent woman. Alone she lives, alone deals with financial problems , alone is driving a car, alone is making essential home repairs. In the days of equality rights it should not surprise nobody. Additionally we reached the stage, when the lonely life became fashionable and self-sufficiency of women is highly desired. Of course, the woman is able to care independently for herself. However, what with the need for closeness?

Many women aren't searching for the partner since this may deny their image in the society. Posing as strong and independent (or being so) they are repelling all courtship and aren't searching for the partner, since it could spoil opinions about them. After all they deal with it alone. Wanting to go out they are ringing up friends and are doing the "woman's outing" to have a glass of wine on the Friday evening. However, every one of us sometimes has a need to cuddle, to be kissed, or simply to hold somebody by the hand.

Provided that casual affairs can satisfy urgency for sex without obligations, still the need for the closeness also remains high and desirable. Not every one of us is admitting to it, however we all feel such a need. How to deal with this as a single woman in XXI century? It should be rhetorical question. She isn't afraid of other opinions, but is searching for the right man. Perhaps for some it will be given with novelty, but having a guy isn't destroying the image of being a strong and independent woman.

Today's free women alone are choosing partners for themselves. To help with it may, perhaps, just a dating site epolishwife.com. The registration isn't a manifestation of capitulation. To the contrary - it is evidence to the fact that nowadays we are conscious what features a perfect guy should have and we are aspiring to finding him. Going to dates we aren't searching for love by force. We are searching for the person which will help us to develop and will be sharing happy moments and successes with us. We don't want somebody who will be limiting us. We are searching for somebody who, with us, will be aspiring towards the ideal.

Single women aren't meeting with such a stigmatization like it would happened decade or two ago. Expression a "spinster" isn't applying no more, because the woman, the same as the guy, can ripe for the right connection sooner or later. Taking the lack of pressure into consideration, all the more we should not have qualms about searching for our proverbial second-half on portals. We live in the 21st century, we not have to wait or agree for the man chosen by parents or imposed by the society.

No pressure, gives us the right to free movement and choice. Get to know a lot of men and then decide whether with any of them you want to spend your life. It's definitely better than get stuck in connection with the first who had enough courage to openly show you his interest. At the time, when there is coercion, the choice turns out to be a pleasure.

Strong and independent women in the society are being promoted. Such women in the real life are doing fine, however it isn't possible in this image to lose one's true self. Going on a date, or permit someone to close up to each other, not only in the realm of the physical but also emotional, is not a sign of weakness.

Just the opposite – creating common life with somebody requires power, perseverance and the creativity far more than living individually. Let us not be afraid to search for love either around ourselves or on dating websites. The strong woman doesn't need the man. Strong woman want the man and therefore is searching as well as is choosing the perfect partner for herself.

In order to form together something beautiful.

 

 

 

 

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